And in the same week as Rosh Hashanah and the start of Ramadan....
How's that for checking out the religious calendar...
I'm reminded of a line from "Shadowlands" (the movie) "... were you just trying to be offensive"?
Low Carb Discussion Forum
Jimmy Moore
Sep 10 2007, 10:57am
It was not intentional, Suellen. I'm sorry you were offended.
| QUOTE (livinlowcarbman @ Sep 10 2007, 09:57 AM) |
It was not intentional, Suellen. I'm sorry you were offended. |
It's not about offending "me personally"... it's the people who are Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, etc., or simply not the same kind of Christian you are that you offended.
Jimmy Moore
Sep 10 2007, 11:34am
Again, I appreciate your concerns. Being a Christian is what I am everyday, so I didn't think about it.
| QUOTE (livinlowcarbman @ Sep 10 2007, 10:34 AM) |
| Again, I appreciate your concerns. Being a Christian is what I am everyday, so I didn't think about it. |
Not thinking about it is part of the problem, isn't it?
Shouldn't one think about it regardless of one's religion?
And the implication that being a Christian means one doesn't have to think about the rest of the world... well, I'm sure you didn't mean that either.
This is a good example of why religion and politics shouldn't be discussed in a public setting!
paleogal
Sep 10 2007, 11:58am
Jimmy, you have nothing to apologize for.
Even though I am AKA paleogal, and believe in evolution as well, I too am Christian and know who's in control and who started it all.
There is nothing wrong with talking from a Christian perspective - this is who we are and we walk the talk. Just as Hindus, Jews and Muslims walk their talk.
If we were Hindu, Jewish or Muslim we would mention like references, but we're not!
I don't take offense to any Jew just posting about Jewish stuff. It's just natural to share who we are.
Keep it up Jimmy, and God bless you for being brave enough to profess your faith. No apologies needed.
It's not a matter of professing one's faith... it's a matter of being considerate that there are other faiths.
It's impolite to assume that "my faith" is better than "your faith"... even if both people are the same faith.
Today's blog implied, to this reader, that there was a particular God, which leaves out a big part of the population.
Or... if this is all about just being the "right kind" of Christian... then let me know now.
My personal faith has no bearing on my doing low carb, nor on the advice I give. If someone has dietary restrictions due to their faith, then that's about the only time it should come up.
I'm sorry, too, that you don't think that offending someone is something that needs to be apologized for.
paleogal
Sep 10 2007, 12:36pm
Jimmy has never proclaimed his faith to be better than anyone else's.
This is our belief system, that there IS one particular God. This is no way disrespectful to anyone. It is a proclamation of personal faith, while respecting other faiths.
Please don't put words in Jimmy's mouth. I notice you like to speak for others, proclaiming in your first post that Jimmy is offending every other religion there is. Yet we've only heard from you.
It bothers me not, what religion anyone is, as God loves us ALL. I guess it bothers you.
By the way, this is my last post on this topic. I see no need to defend myself or Jimmy to you. I don't find this stimulating, as you apparently do. Your diatribe is upsetting, not enlightening or upliftiing, like this forum is. Bye.
valerieslivingbooks
Sep 10 2007, 1:24pm
First admitting that there are rude, abrasive, abusive, and even dangerous people in every faith, and knowing that my experience doesn't represent all possibilities, I want to say that the Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, Pagans, et al. that I have met and corresponded with are *not* offended by the public expression of faith.
Should the existence and expression of faith be considered a shameful thing among people of faith? I don't think so.
Among people of faith, whatever the faith, there is one point of mutual agreement, one belief that we all share--and that is a rejection of materialism. We people of faith are convinced, from the core of ourselves, that there is more to what we see than what we see.
There is a part of us that *feels* the beckoning mystery; there is a part of us that *knows* that there is a window through which we might look and see another depth to reality. And this part of us inexorably affects every other part.
Wishing that it weren't so won't make it not so. It just *is*--and belief speaks.
Since an observant Jew believes that his or her faith is truly true, and I just as confidently believe that my faith is truly true, I suppose it might be natural to think that I would turn pale and slightly nauseous when I hear an observant Jew celebrate his faith, but the truth is that I welcome that expression and will hear or read it with interest.
Honestly, whether Christian or Buddhist or Pagan, there is a sense in which we can't help ourselves. *Belief* demands some degree of expression in the public sphere. It just *does*.
A Muslim can't take on a new faith or muzzle the expression of his faith with the same ease that a person can put on a red sweater rather than a blue one when red becomes the latest fashion. Asking that it be so or thinking that it should be so will not do. *Belief speaks*.
Belief has spoken for centuries against so much more than mild expressions of discomfort--or worries of discomfort in others. These faiths _all_ have their martyrs. Some examples can be found in Jesus Freaks by DC Talk. A shocking book--but it offers some historical perspective on this question.
People of faith are not _able to_ hush up on request. They can try to be more understanding, more thoughtful, or more careful in their speech, but belief inexorably speaks.
When the broader culture asks us, as people of faith (Christian, Jew, Muslim, Wiccan, et al.), to hide our faith, to present ourselves as less than who we are, we feel uncomfortable and the result, to the extent that we can attempt it, is that we present a caricature of who we really are. And, sooner or later, that restraint fails and belief speaks.
Sometimes it feels to us people of faith that the deepest part of who we are, our faith, is the one diversity that cannot be tolerated. We are asked to hide our faith, to hush up, to present ourselves as if we were atheists, as if atheism is the only acceptable public face for this entire, wonderful, diverse population of people. It should not be so, imho.
I respect your view, sjm, and your care for someone who *might* be personally offended by Jimmy's beliefs, but in my experience people from the groups that you mention will typically be very understanding of how and why Jimmy's faith affects his public expression. They will assume that it would be that way. Their faiths affect their expression, and so they typically understand perfectly well why Jimmy's faith should affect his.
I believe that Jesus is the only way to the one and only true and living God (this is what He claimed to be). This is a beautiful mystery that has entirely gripped my soul. But, partly in consequence of this very mystery, I'm extremely interested in other faiths--their histories, their beliefs, and the people who hold them. I welcome their speech, both in monologue and in dialogue.
Kristine
Sep 10 2007, 2:08pm
Wow, Valerie. You certainly know how to express yourself beautifully. I want to be like you when I grow up!
Kristi
FormerDonutJunkie
Sep 10 2007, 2:48pm
Jimmy,
I commend you for sharing your faith, which IS you, because it IS what YOU believe. You merely shared how that faith was a part of YOUR weight loss and journey to health. You DID NOT in any way, form or fashion beg, plead, coerce, demand or otherwise imply that everyone else must include their faith or yours in order to be successful at weight loss and achieving good health. You allowed each person to make their own choices and decisions about their own faith or lack thereof. The article was in very good taste and I, for one, really appreciated it and enjoyed reading it, and fully support your freedom, as well as the freedom of others, to express their faith, beliefs and opinions.
It's OK to express our opinions about everything else, but not about our faith? I don't think so. Neither would that narrow viewpoint be held by the other faiths and religions that sjm mentioned in his response. I, like other previous posters concerning this thread, am not only NOT opposed to others sharing their faith in the same unoffensive way that Jimmy shared his, I also am very open to hearing their beliefs.
In addition, this was on Jimmy's own blog that the alleged offense took place, which is what blog's are for, expressing the author's own opinions... a place where one should be able to feel free to voice their opinion, feelings and beliefs about any subject they see fit.
Jimmy, you are doing a great work and service for all of us who are on our journey back to good nutrition and healthy weight loss. I, for one, salute you for your generous efforts and hours of tireless hard work you put into your blog and this forum! You are a way-post, a guide, a voice of encouragement to countless thousands...so don't be distracted by incidents such as this. You have always done what is right, and you are doing what is right in this case, and NO apology is needed!
emjay
Sep 10 2007, 3:09pm
Jimmy,
I was offended by your blog entry, "Could God Be The Missing Link". On behalf of all Missing Links, I would like to point out, God is not on our membership list. Even though you obviously did not intend to offend us, since we ARE offended, you must apologize to us now. Now dance for us. Dance, Jimmy, dance! Now hop on one leg. I'm sure there is also a religion of 3 or 4 people in Asia you've never heard of, but did not mention, so as soon as I find out their name and let them know you offended them, I'm sure they'll be posting here too. And I'm sure they'll try to make you do something you shouldn't have to do also.
Remember: You're nobody in America if you're not a victim!
I'm going to go cry now like the little liberal baby I am.
Vic
melodiegale
Sep 10 2007, 3:46pm
No where in our constitution are we guaranteed the right not to be offended. All this political correctness isn't doing anything to strengthen us as a nation or as individuals for that matter. No tears here either!
Sandi
Sep 10 2007, 4:16pm
I don't know,
Jimmy never hid that he was a christian
why should he now
It is who he is,
It is who I am also
If I read something someone wrote and I dont beleive in the same, I read it, skip, or dont go there any more.
But I wouldnt expect someone to change because I don't beleive in it
sandi
susanmarie
Sep 10 2007, 4:54pm
I am not Christian, but my husband is (and Jimmy, you two look remarkably similar, you handsome guy, you) and I read with interest your post today. I enjoyed it very much, even though it's not in line with my way of life.
Thank you for sharing your beliefs no matter what they are. Thank you for all that you do.
Best,
Susan
Jimmy Moore
Sep 10 2007, 5:18pm
THANKS everyone! Vic, I couldn't stop laughing at your comments. Hee hee!
Susan, you must have one hottie of a hubby. HA!
valerieslivingbooks
Sep 10 2007, 5:18pm
| QUOTE (sjm @ Sep 10 2007, 12:14 PM) |
Today's blog implied, to this reader, that there was a particular God, which leaves out a big part of the population. <snip> I'm sorry, too, that you don't think that offending someone is something that needs to be apologized for. |
I think that you have gone beautifuly straight to the point, SJM, but asking a religious blogger to write as if His God does not exist or is not important to Him is actually not more respectful to any of the theistic faiths; it is anathema to all of them.
To give you a peek into the mind of religious thinkers, which I hope will be helpful: All of the theistic religions teach that denying God, by privately or publicly pretending that He does not exist, is a chief offense, a very great sin.
This kind of speech--"Praise the Lord," "Bless HaShem," "There is no god but Allah," is not common among religious people because they don't care if they offend people (indeed, some do care very much); it is (only?) that they care very much more about offending God.
If someone were to say, "I know this is supposedly Jimmy's forum, but I for one do not believe that he exists--or if he does exist, he can't be the only one who exists. I would be much more comfortable if no one would mention his name, acknowledge him, or speak to him while I am a member."
Most of us would say, "Oh, we could never do that. That would offend Jimmy, who ought to be treated as kindly as any other person."
For religious people, refusing to acknowledge God in public is very similar in kind and very much worse in degree.
Just a peek into the thinking that leads to this kind of talk, that's all. Most of the people of most of the religions are much more comfortable when speech about God is readily tolerated as a part of human diversity.
| QUOTE (valerieslivingbooks @ Sep 10 2007, 04:18 PM) |
I think that you have gone beautifuly straight to the point, SJM, but asking a religious blogger to write as if His God does not exist or is not important to Him is actually not more respectful to any of the theistic faiths; it is anathema to all of them.
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I thought the main focus of the blog was low carb.
I don't know where I asked Jimmy to "write as if his God does not exist or is not important".
My observation was that I thought it was a particularly ill-timed blog entry, given the religious happenings of this week.
I understand, too, that Jimmy didn't set out to offend anyone.
That someone may or may not take offense... well... that can happen with anything anyone writes.
Perhaps my "religious" awareness is more acute... living in a metropolitan area, and having friends of different faiths, so that I'm aware of different religious holidays, and am thus, still surprised when someone in the "public eye" is not as aware or as sensitive to how their words on religion might be interpreted.
I go back to another comment though... this topic rarely succeeds in a public forum, so... I'll make no further comments.
Jimmy Moore
Sep 10 2007, 6:06pm
I appreciate the conversation and Valerie explained my position very well. THANKS Valerie. I certainly make no bones about my Christianity and never have in the 2 1/2 years at my blog and now here. It is who I am.
As someone who is not a christian, I must say I have absolutely no problem with it.
I am open to free dialogue with Christians, and I respect and enjoy it when they talk about their faith.
I know the struggles of obesity, I am living them now. I can see how Jimmy's faith assisted him in losing weight.
I don't think this is about Christianity, I think this is about hatred of Christians and intolerance of Christians like Jimmy.
So a man who has spent many hours a day for the past 2 years blogging about low carb, has to apologise for a post about his religion??
Get a grip seriously!
We can either be accepting of others, or continue to be angry at them.
Jimmy Moore
Sep 10 2007, 7:55pm
THANKS Dave!
diamondwife
Sep 10 2007, 8:59pm
Yay Jimmy!!! I really can't add much after what Valerie said. In this country we have freedom of speech. If you can't even mention your religion in your blog without fear of being offensive, then the speech isn't really all that free is it. How come it is okay in so many arenas to talk about drugs, alcohol, sex, the list goes on...even other religons, but the mention of Jesus and Christianity is practically a stoning offense. This reminds me of a quote I got in a funny e-mail today. It was attributed to Jay Leno, which I don't know if that is true or not, but it's good nonetheless...
"With hurricanes, tornadoes, fires out of control, mud
slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the
country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird
flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time
to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?" - Jay Leno
valerieslivingbooks
Sep 10 2007, 9:15pm
| QUOTE (sjm @ Sep 10 2007, 05:38 PM) |
| My observation was that I thought it was a particularly ill-timed blog entry, given the religious happenings of this week. |
Thanks so much, SJM. I am sorry that I misunderstood. However, I doubt that Jews or Muslims generally believe that this is a time for Christians to feel unwelcome to express their faith in the public sphere. :-)
I am a big believer in finding common points of agreement and interest and building friendships on those. People need not think just alike to be friendly and experience mutually beneficial relationships, and this is a time of the year where Christians and Jews and Christians and Muslims very easily find that common ground.
Here's an itty bitty, teeny tiny course in comparative religion for September.... ;-)
Rosh Hashanah focuses on sin and judgement; the New Year is a solemn time when faithful Jews are called to ask God to forgive their sins. The blowing of the shofar alerts the hearers to certain, coming judgment.
Jesus, who was an observant Jew, not only celebrated Rosh Hashanah, but He is known to have taken great interest in its themes. Many people, both Christians and Jews, are well aware that the way that they live their lives is not what they wish it were. (For some of us, like me, this is only to say the least.)
We do feel, many of us, that we come short of a divine standard for human behavior. We don't love our neighbors as we love ourselves, for example--and doesn't this whole conversation touch on just that? (We humans have a tendency to love ourselves best of all.) This is why we don't always tell the truth, don't perfectly respect the property rights of others, and so on. And, certainly, we don't always honor G_d in all that we do.
The holiday may be Jewish, but its theme is far larger and deeper than one community of people can hold. These words were composed for Rosh Hashanah, from Psalm 96, The Hebrew Bible--
"O sing unto HaShem [G_d] a new song; sing unto HaShem, all the earth. Sing unto HaShem, bless His name; proclaim His salvation from day to day. Declare His glory among the nations, His marvellous works among all the peoples. For great is HaShem, and highly to be praised; He is to be feared above all gods. For all the gods of the peoples are things of nought; but HaShem made the heavens. Honour and majesty are before Him; strength and beauty are in His sanctuary. Ascribe unto HaShem, ye kindreds of the peoples, ascribe unto HaShem glory and strength. Ascribe unto HaShem the glory due unto His name; bring an offering, and come into His courts. O worship HaShem in the beauty of holiness; tremble before Him, all the earth. Say among the nations: 'The HaShem reigneth.' The world also is established that it cannot be moved; He will judge the peoples with equity. Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth rejoice; let the sea roar, and the fulness thereof; Let the field exult; and all that is therein; then shall all the trees of the wood sing for joy; Before HaShem, for He is come; for He is come to judge the earth; He will judge the world with righteousness, and the peoples in His faithfulness."
These celebratory and cautionary words for the Jewish festival of Rosh Hashanah are not words of division, strife, separation, or segregation among peoples. In fact, the very text draws people together: "all the earth...among the nations...among all the peoples...kindreds of the peoples...all the earth...among the nations...judge the peoples....the earth...the world...the peoples."
The Jews are not alone this month; Ramadan also focuses on sin and judgment. It is a time of the year when faithful Muslims fast and pray and consider, a time when they are called upon to make particular efforts to refrain from grave sins and work on improving their character and moral life. For a serious and observant Muslim, there is more to Ramadan than fasting and feasting; it is a time of particular awareness of one's sins and short-comings.
Did you know that Islam considers Jesus to be a true and perfect Prophet from God, One who was righteous and sinless all his life and taught only the Truth of God all the time?
What better month than Ramadan to reflect on what Jesus himself said about sin and judgment? Regretting one's sins and desiring an improved character is not just for Muslims. It's definitely for Christians too!
Is this a time for contention or separation? I do not believe so. I do not fast in Ramadan, but every day of the month I'm aware that I am not and cannot myself be perfect in God's sight.
Jesus said, "This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God." (This comes from John chapter 3 of the Holy Bible, it's part of one of the most beloved Christian stories.)
The Quran says (2:87), "For, indeed, We trusted unto Moses the divine words and caused apostle after apostle to follow him; and We trusted unto Jesus, the son of Mary, all evidence of the truth, and strengthened him with holy inspiration. Yet is it not so that every time an apostle came unto you with something that was not to your liking, you gloried in your arrogance, and to some of them you gave the lie, while others you would slay?"
Are these words only of interest to Muslims? As a Christian, I definitely see interesting points in the Quran! (I've read it.)
I prefer open discourse and mutual appreciation wherever the peoples of faith can find common ground. Rosh Hashanah and Ramadan are not times for animosity (which is sin in all three faiths), but for reasonable, friendly, and (yes) public consideration of these common, human themes.
Thanks for the discussion, SJM. These things (truths and relationships) are important to me, and I appreciate the opportunity to share my views.
Sparkys Girl
Sep 11 2007, 12:52am
I can really add nothing to this topic except to say this. I am a Christian, and being a Christian is a vital part of who I am. It is impossible for me to seperate my Christian faith from other aspects of my life. My faith is the biggest part of my life and therefore spills over into every aspect of my life. If I share anything of myself with you, no matter the topic, you will find my faith mixed in. I don't do this to offend. I do this because it's a part of who I am. Many of the Christians I know are the same. It's as much a part of me as my eye color or my voice. I could no more throw it off, to be politically correct, than I could change my physical attributes.
I was hesitant to get in on this discussion, but I felt I needed to make this point clear. It's who we are, not a badge we can wear when it's convenient. I left a forum over this very topic. I've decided not to post the details here. But I will say it was one of the most hurtful things I've dealt with. I don't want to see a repeat of such actions here.
I certainly understand about the other religious holidays, etc. and how some may feel it's bad timing. But honestly, in today's society, if I had to wait for the perfect timing to discuss my faith or my God, where I wouldn't offend someone, I'd rarely, if ever, get to say a word. It's a very sad statement, but true nonetheless.
I hope we can all be accepting of our differences, learn to overlook the things we may not see eye to eye on, and focus on the things we do have in common. Yes, Jimmy's blog, this forum, my blog, and a host of others are about low-carb - but they are also about real life and the many challenges and triumphs we face. God is our helper at all times. He gets us through the challenges and celebrates with us during our victories.
We've shared our way of dealing with these issues. So how do you cope? We'd love to hear your ideas too!